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Life Direction | Life Balance
I'm H. Allen "Skip" Pulley. I created this site to bring together all the elements of my being.
My goal is to lead by example and learn as much as possible about life and the living universe.
My life has evolved into a symbiotic dualism. "Flip-sides" of the same coin.
On one side: energy medicine, meditation, natural health and spirituality (the YIN)
On the other side: writing, directing, podcasting, philosophy; research and instruction (the YANG)
A partial list of my life balancing & direction practices:
○ Meditation - Allegra certified meditation instructor
○ Energy Medicine - Allegra Certified Practitioner
(Reiki, Transcendental and Shamanic healing)
○ Feng Shui - 3rd level Feng Shui Master
○ Natural Health & Healing (holistic wellness)
○ Muay Thai - for weight-loss and self defense
○ Koi Ponds, Zen Gardens, Bamboo & Landscaping
☼ Guided, Focused, Centered and Mindfulness Meditation
☼ Shamanic Meditation, Journeying & Energy Medicine
☼ Reiki Energy Healing | Kundalini Energy Healing
☼ Personalized Feng Shui & Life-force Flow Charts
☼ Natural Health & Healing - remedies & prevention
☼ Strength Training - Diet & Nutrition
☼ Life Direction, Life Balance and Spiritual Guidance
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Six Minute Meditation - Mindfulness
A partial list of creative media services:
○ Writing, Ghostwriting, Script Supervision & Punch Up
○ Direction (film, music video, commercial, TV)
○ Self-Ownership, DBA and Co-op Consultation
○ Independent Filmmaking from A to Z
○ Voice-over and Audio-book services
○ Promotional Marketing
Feel free to contact me for info at 980 263 9175 ®™ H. Allen Media Group
For Marketing and Promotion of yourself, your business or your organization,
please contact me directly at 980.242.1773
2010 Skip Pulley Interview on Fox
Some of my critics consider me the first true existentialist of the 21st century.
It is a large part of my being. But overall I owe my existence to a life-long search for truth.
This search holds the meaning of Human existence. The purpose of my life is to discover that truth. Spirituality is essentially a state of being. Spirits of all beings are always all around us:
In the wind, sun, rain and fire. All throughout the ether; as above - so below.
We all continually live on multiple planes of existence; in multiple dimensions, simultaneously.
It is therefore possible to transcend the fabric of space and time by understanding and applying the laws of the living universe. Technically, neither space nor time actually exist. They are just "constructs" of the human psyche.
I was a writer before I knew I was a writer.
I have been a writer since I have known how to write.
Eventually, I became a comedy writer; because I am naturally satirical and I can see that there is a grain of truth in every so-called joke.
Comedian Larry Miller once said; "good comics look at the world and they see a funny place, great comics look at the world and they don't."
Pure comedy (and satire in my case) is always based on truth.
Truth is always the real objective for those who were born to question everything.
There is humor in truth just as there is truth in humor.
Having a sense of humor is important to maintain life balance with the universe.
Human life, in some sense, is an absurdity. But that doesn't matter. Human existence is ephemeral.
Our souls are eternal. Humanity is transitory. we learn to interact with spirits to ease our journey.
Here is an abstract of my understanding. Ethic will always be more important than "morality".
1. In order to take time, you must make time. There's no need to rush when you have balance.
2. Do not hate anyone or anything. Forgive the hatred in your heart and your soul will be free.
3. Practice non-violence. (Keeping in mind, self-defense and sport are not considered violence.)
4. Support your community first and foremost, then let your activism work its way outward.
5. Do not fall victim to the good and evil paradigm. Learn to accept positive and negative energy.
6. Network and Mainstream "news", outside of your community, is only 5% true. (it's 95% lies)
7. Everyone on earth has a purpose and all human life has a singular meaning.
8. Learn to control both anger and fear. Do not make judgments based solely on emotion.
9. Become the skeptic optimist. The glass is half full, but only drink when you're thirsty.
10. You are not a slave to your genes. No disease or disorder is in and of itself genetic.
I am an anti-materialist minimalist. My wants never outweigh my needs. This fact combined with my anti-establishment mindset and deconstructionist philosophy allow me to accept and understand the truth as it exists rather than ideologically. This is how to become one with yourself and nature.
To understand this way of thinking, you must un-learn everything you have been taught by established authority in systemic society for most of your life.
The purpose of primary, secondary and high schools is to teach young people how to "conform".
Their top priority is to teach them to obey. This is why you must always continue to provide guidance for your children. The things you teach them directly and allow them to learn on their own will shape their being as adults. In other words, schools do not teach children how to learn, as much as teach them how to memorize an accepted narrative. The purpose of Colleges and Universities is even more specific. Their purpose is to teach you how to get (and keep) a job, how to assimilate, how to make money and how to pressure yourself and others to be socially "successful". College is a normalization factory. The reason college social life is so wild and uninhibited at first is because society has designated that stage of your life for getting all the "wild" behavior out of your system, so afterward you can drone down and concentrate on consumption.
When you graduate into adulthood, you are expected to line up with everyone else and march to the exact same tune (i.e. the "formula") for the rest of your life, in order to be "normal". All the while living in consistent debt, subject to man-made systems of control and slowly decaying as voluntary slaves of a large corporation. We are taught to live in fear, anxiety and sickness; while being conditioned to accept hatred, greed, fear and contempt. From inside this system, as a participant, all we can do is try to fight against social conditioning while seeking truth, balance and happiness in life. The real truth is, the nature of the system can't be changed, it can only be torn down or otherwise destroyed in favor of a new one. Most people inherently fear this destruction, so most of us willingly trade life-long spiritual harmony and true happiness for materialism and fleeting moments of selfish accomplishment, social recognition and uneasy complacency.
I realize that some people feel they can exist only in that sphere of "normality". Things like professional sports, vacations, television, decadent foods, sensual pleasure and other escapes are a standard of living or a highlight in their lives, rather than just a break or distraction. Placing great importance on things of little or no self consequence is a major sign of imbalance. I understand that escapes from reality are safe and comforting. Go-along-to-get-along types will live their entire lives without a desire to understand anything on a higher level than humanity, or any of the universal truths that actually govern our existence here. However, some people do realize that human existence is a perpetually transitory state.
All matter - living and non-living, is in a constant state of motion and/or transition. We seek a higher consciousness as a part of our being. We seek understanding of our spiritual origin, consciousness evolution and nexus - not just "proof" of a singular spiritual consciousness; because we already have proof. We are the living proof.
To be clear, work and school at every level, both public and private - are not in and of themselves detrimental to human development. They are merely a part of the system of control.
They only have as much control over you and your children as you allow. The key is to understand the school system's true purpose of conformity and obedience to understand the human learning process. Learning can take place anywhere. Learning can be spontaneous. Most importantly, learning should be life-long. It is essential to growth and development as a human being. Work, however should be just that - work, unless you are doing something you love;
in which case it should not be considered work at all, it's love.
I am here for those who seek guidance, balance and support.
A basic understanding of universal truth starts with the acknowledgment of equality and equity.
Giving and receiving are equitable. Neither one is more important than the other.
The equality of giving and receiving is a necessary step toward enlightenment.
Feel free to explore my website and begin to discover the truth that exists as your path toward an abundant life of health, strength and happiness.
In addition to sessions, workshops, lectures and study groups in the Charlotte NC metro area,
I also offer remote sessions via skype, phone, email and live chat.
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